But you already traded, and now you feel ripped off in a very bitter way.
This has gone from a minor annoyance to a major and central problem in your relationship.
Their sexual past goes against all of your deeply held values about the way people should conduct themselves, what is good, what is proper, and what is right.
How could they just throw away their virginity like it was nothing? They just threw their body away and never thought twice.
You’re being assaulted by a swarm of horrible feelings, and I know they all feel jumbled together, but it’s important to pull them apart and give them names.
The more you can identify and understand the nature of your own feelings, the easier it will be for you to process and act on them in a healthy way.