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He has been divorced for over two year, and has two boys, ages 8 and 10. She was having an “emotional” affair with an 18- year-old from the gym his boys went to, and she wanted to see what else was out there. He thought he would date for a few years before he found a “good one.” I have not met his boys yet, and he has no idea when I will. I feel it’s just the next step to take in our relationship.
I know he is into me, and he tells me everything except “I love you.” He initiates contact and makes most plans and pays for everything.
The best relationship I have ever had, so much love and respect.
We moved in together 4 months ago, and things have been going great. I was afraid that moving in would alter the good relationship we had because once you move in with someone their expectations change.
His mom had three kids all by different men, and he is the product of a drunken one-night-stand. They dated for a few years, broke up for a year, got back together and were married for almost 18 years when they divorced. I was his first online date (e Harmony) and he never expected to find someone like me right away. He feels that by meeting my parents, saying he loves me, and my meeting his boys, he has to propose in the next week.
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We get along great and I am head-over-heels in love with him.
If it’s truly a relationship you want and the sooner the better, MOA.
It sounds like this guy has a while to go before he’ll be ready for the kind of commitment you’re looking for.