You say stuff like, “You’re a really busy girl, huh?
” You can claim you were just kidding, but the truth is that it’s usually coming from a place of insecurity or frustration.
During the early stages of dating, a girl doesn’t want to feel that you’re way more invested than she is. She wants you to see her as a person, not idealize her.
And she wants to know — and not just because you’re desperate for a girlfriend.
You alone are more than enough to build a romantic connection with a woman.
Maybe you think showing her what you can offer will give you a better chance…but all you do is set yourself up as a guy who needs to compensate to get women.
Women take their jobs seriously, too, and they don’t want their managers to see them fraternizing on company time.By then, she’s invested in you and it’s fine to show your girlfriend you appreciate her.This happens if you’re a “nice guy” and stuck in the friend zone.You tell her that you like her and care so much about her.You promise you’ll treat her better than any other guy.