Years of Sahara-like drought will give way to a summer full of eternal possibility, teeming with tapas dates and dinner dates and beach dates galore.
One day, you’ll wake up in a daze, and find yourself with a bucket full of eligible, decent, good dudes, all clamoring for your attention.
About a year ago, I was told by a close friend of his that he did have feelings for me.
I have seen him after, but I have not gotten the chance to speak to him about it, as we are always interrupted.
Is having sex with multiple people something they have a right to specifically KNOW, especially if you’re using condoms? Personally, if I’m having sex with somebody, I would prefer it that I was the only person they’re having sex with, but would love the freedom to be able to do whatever I wanted to do. No, not really, but as my mother always tells me, life isn’t fair.
Regardless, the people you’re boning have somewhat of a right to know, but when and if you want to tell them is up to you.
The only shitty thing is the fact that you’ll probably have to let go of the one who wants to take it to the next level.
What if YOU are catching feelings for one of the people you’re dating, but you’re not sure if they’re there yet?
One day, you’re swiping sullenly through Tinder bemoaning the lack of attractive, normal-seeming men that are possibly as tall as they say they are in their profiles, and the next, you find yourself drafting a spreadsheet to keep track of the nine dates that you have somehow booked for one week. Like all things in life, your dating life will ebb and flow.If you’re casually seeing more than one person, keep that up until the balance tips in favor of one or the other.But until you have “the talk” about being exclusive, you don’t to tell anyone anything.Any possible rejection you experience will be a blip on the radar, another lesson learned, but it shouldn’t slow your roll. I am in my early 20's and I have feelings for two totally different guys. We became friends, but nothing happened between us, as I just never told him.