I'd even vary how soon I would tell them, whether it was two days or a week into a great intellectual conversation or just a great sexy conversation, and every time had the same ending.Sometimes they would literally say something like, "Well, can you still have sex?Have you ever wondered whether it is possible to meet someone new that you like and not worry that you have to explain that you have a disability?
But then I worried if I didn't include it in the profile, I would feel like I was lying.
The photos I used weren't cropped weirdly or anything — if you looked closely you could see it, but you wouldn't maybe notice it.
I never did that in an attempt to deceptive, I just wanted people to get to know me as a person and not me as a person in a wheelchair.
So I felt the same way about my online dating profile.
The first Tinder date I went on, I didn't tell the guy that I was disabled before we got together.