Despite many feeling liberated in themselves, many told us they didn’t feel like society was very approving of OAP sex.Many felt overlooked and that they became invisible after the menopause.Her granddaughter Nicola is acting as both facilitator and gatekeeper and sifting those she thinks are suitable.As Nicola sends a smiley to a man called John who’s caught her grandma’s eye, Connie tells us that Nicola need not worry about her.
“I can say that sometimes in the street I think: ‘Oh yeah, that would be a nice person to go to bed with’,” Vikki, 70, from Dorset told us.
Justin has had people come to him using household products as lubricants- shampoo, hand cream and even cooking oil.
“There does need to be perhaps a focus on trying to make services more older people friendly.” In many ways it is no surprise that older people are taking risks.
She met a man that lived a couple of states away, and think about it, her first time around she would have never met this man, because she had never visited that state.
They spent months emailing, instant messaging, and using video chat.