Ladies, as much as you want the man in your life to want to know all about you (so he can “understand the real you”) — the feeling is not mutual. I strongly advise against stressing yourself out in the pursuit of searching his soul. He wants to show you a good time on a date that you can both enjoy. Hugh Grant was speaking for 99% of men when he said he misses the 'chase' as a reason for going to a hooker, when he had the beautiful Ms. Ladies, this is the real life—not a movie where men are tender heart romantics who never judge a woman who sleeps with them too soon. I can hear her pee, but as soon as she comes out of the bathroom, she'll ride me like a wild Bronco. As time goes on, those things, even the ones that he actually told you he considers cute, will come to be perceived as less cute, and more annoying.
Yes, when presented with the opportunity most men will have sex, although there are always exceptions—they probably won't pursue a long-term romance with what they see as an easy woman. He’s not going to care or even notice if your handbag is “a little bit off” or if you’re a brunette and he’s always had a thing for blondes. She's on her period, but as soon as it's over, we'll have sex again. This process is directly proportional to the amount of sex you're having, or not having.
It’s a very calculated approach, and very different from women’s.
Women are frustrated about men who date multiple women despite their claims of wanting to settle down. We are told not to rush, to take our time, and to figure out what we truly desire.You’ll be shocked to discover how different love is for men and women. In fact, you want him to want to know everything about you.* FORGET about implementing “total disclosure” when you first meet a man, and forget about being completely up-front, honest, and open about what you are thinking and feeling. If you tell him all there is up front, he’ll be sated, and that’s no good for allure!Second, too much information can be a real mood-killer.Although it may sound great in theory, in the dating arena, the “over-share” will not only prove ineffective, it will probably send the man running in the opposite direction.